Starting a business is exciting.

Especially so if you’re teaming up with people you’re excited to work with. 

After you and your co-founders have decided on titles, duties, and responsibilities, don’t forget the key legal document that’ll formally outline your relationship: a founder’s agreement.

Why should you create one?

When the initial optimism and high from starting a business wears off, your founder’s agreement can provide clarity to a number of problems that I see as a mediator and executive coach working with seed-funded to Series B startup teams. 

💡 Harvard Business School Professor Noam Wasserman found that 65% of high-potential startups fail because of conflict among co-founders

When disagreements between co-founders occur, usually it’s around decision-making, who does what and when, differences in working styles, and interpersonal or personality clashes. 

A lawyer, when creating your founder agreement, should, at a minimum, include: 

• Each founder’s roles and responsibilities

• The amount of equity each person gets

• The cap table & vesting schedule

• What happens if someone is fired, dies, or wants to leave (exit clauses)

• Salaries (if applicable)

• Intellectual Property

These sections, however, do little to address and manage the people aspect of working together. 

This article will walk you through the various non-legal components that you should also consider when writing up your founder agreement, with an eye toward optimizing collaboration between you and your co-founders so the team stays high-performing for the long run. 

Key Takeaways


1. Getting clear on the non-legal provisions that keep founder teams high-performing 

2. How writing down why the founders got into business together can help you later on as a team

3. Creating a decision-making process that works for you and your team

4. How to address change and disagreement through a realignment process and formal conflict resolution process


Why Did You Get Into Business Together?

There’s no shortage of startup stories where things got really bad between its founders. 

Snapchat settled out of court with its third, less-known co-founder, Reggie Brown, to the tune of $157.5 million dollars.

Another startup, Cruise, worked out a deal with another co-founder who claimed he was being cheated out of 50% ownership. 

Community, a startup that connects celebrities with fans through text messages, had two of its founders sue another founder after alleging fraud back in 2020

When a business starts growing and showing signs of success, greed and ego can destroy the best of founder teams.

When I first start working with teams, I always ask them, “Why did you get into business together?” 

Because whether they wanted to change the world with their idea, create the next big thing, or merely wanted to team up to do something together, they forgot the original vision that brought them together. 

When major conflict strikes, this social history can be the difference between remembering the goodness of your past versus fighting it out and destroying the relationship in the process. 

💡 Sample Language to Include this Within Your Founder Agreement: “We, as a Founding Team, have decided to get into business together for the following reasons: [Insert Reasons]

The initial social capital that brought you all together is something you can bank on when trying to recreate the positive in the midst of the negative  —  and for most teams, this spark can lead to much better results.

The Values Underlying Your Business Relationship

Values are the underlying beliefs, attitudes, and preferences that influence why you do what you do – and are reflected in how the founders speak, act, and collaborate with each other.  

Values help guide actions, behaviors, and create team norms. They can act as a north star and help your team move in the same direction. – Google Re:Work

When a founder team has strong core values, they create a shared understanding of what is expected of each other. 

Values also function as your team’s north star, helping you navigate decisions, communication, and can even help resolve potential disagreements.

Research likewise shows that teams that live their values have team members that feel more supported, motivated, and able to take risks and learn from their mistakes via improved psychological safety. 

That’s why I encourage every founder team to brainstorm their values early on and to write them down in their founder agreement so everyone is clear on expectations and team norms.

A Process for Finding Your Team Values

This is the process I walk clients through so they can decide on their group values. 

Step 1: Use My List of Values

Below is a list of values that I use with clients that you can download or save to your google drive.

CollabsHQ 100 list of team values

My list is not all-encompassing, but does list out 100 team values. You can also google other lists if you feel this one is incomplete or want to use another list for whatever reason. 

Step 2: Take 10 Minutes to Agree on Twenty Values Individually

Everyone takes ten minutes to individually develop their list of twenty values they would like to see the team uphold. To prime your mind for this part of the activity, everyone should ask themselves, “How can we act as our best selves while positively driving company and team performance?” By answering this question, you frame expectations while ensuring the values are about both individual and team performance. 

Step 3: Take 30 minutes to Agree on Ten Values as a Team

Here, everyone individually discusses their values. Put them up on a whiteboard or on a Google doc if done virtually. Openly discuss areas of alignment and where you disagree. Get the list down to ten as a group. 

💡 Pro Tip: If you have problems as a team getting the list down to ten, you may want to ask why and start there. Why aren’t you able to agree? What is preventing you all to come to a collaborative outcome? Use this questions to uncover some of those aspects and you can move forward productively. 

Step 4: Take 20 minutes to Agree on Five Values as a Team

Once you’ve established a list of ten values, take ten minutes to narrow the list down to five. This may be challenging. But how you have the conversation will very much depend on everyone’s ability to collaborate and create a shared vision, which should be the focus of this exercise. 

Step 5: List the Five Values in Order of Importance with a Small Explanation 

Create value statements that explain the five values you have chosen as a group. Make them action-oriented. These two lists below show how some startups and more established companies wrote out their statements and the values associated with each.

Early-stage teams should also use their values to create the company values that they’ll use to scale their culture after hiring their first employees.

Ultimately, the values you decide on will drive your team’s performance – and from what I have seen, make difficult decisions and conversations easier for everyone involved when everyone recognizes what is expected of them. 

A Decision-Making Process between the Founders

The Chief Executive Officer (CEO) takes the lead and is expected to make all final decisions. That’s just the startup norm. 

However, should the CEO not be transparent with his decisions or fails to get buy-in from his co-founders, it can also negatively impact the team. 

No founder will want to continue to work their best if their opinion isn’t taken into account when making decisions. I know, because I have seen this firsthand.   

I was working with a two-person founder team where the CEO would make decisions without his founder’s input, the Chief Technology Officer. 

Over time, the CTO got resentful and felt like everyone in the company would come to him to better understand the decisions the CEO was making. At the time, they lead a team of twenty employees. While the CEO and CTO both agreed that they would stay in their respective lanes and execute decisions within their domain, the lack of transparency and information sharing regarding bigger business decisions was causing strife between them – and also started negatively affecting the business. It got so bad that the CTO threatened to quit. 

Don’t be like this team. To create a decision-making process, think about the following questions: 

1. Are founders allowed to make unilateral decisions under their domain/role? 

2. Are major product or company decisions debated and dialogued about collaboratively?

3. Are founders expected to get behind decisions they don’t agree with?

💡 Pro Tip: Founder teams must navigate many unknowns and risks. Sometimes there is no clear right or wrong path to take. Keep this in mind when making your decisions and use frameworks, benchmarks, etc. when possible.

I advise clients to create a decision-making framework that allows the founders to evaluate how risky a potential decision is versus what the probability of it happening is. Much like the below:

Collaborative decision-making framework for startup founders

When evaluating a decision, this framework creates structure and clarity into how they’ll proceed as a team when inevitably someone feels passionate about a potential decision but there isn’t a clear yes or no either way.

This way impassioned ideas do not get personalized into unnecessary conflict. 

A Quarterly Realignment Process to Address Change & Disagreement

Once a quarter, usually when teams are reviewing and setting the next quarter's goals, teams should also take the opportunity air out any concerns through a realignment process. 

This process creates an intentional space where founders all agree to look at past performance and give feedback openly without fear. 

The process should include:

1. The values underlying the conversation 

2. A model and expectations for giving and receiving feedback

3. Steps to break any impasse (should it occur)

4. Memorializing the conversation and next steps via an email, a Google doc, or some other method so you can look backward to see what was agreed 

Everyone should also agree that while you are using the quarterly realignment process, the values and expectations that were agreed upon before are not open to change. 

This will ensure that the process is used in the way that it should be – to address change – while keeping things moving forward.

A Formal Conflict Resolution Process

Lastly, when realignment efforts fail and the team is having major conflict, a formal conflict resolution process included in their founder agreement can be a last-ditch effort to save the relationship and the business.  

A formal conflict resolution process should have multiple steps: 

Step 1: Informal Discussion to Find a Solution

The founders should all discuss the problem openly, anchored in their values. Whatever the problem is, think about how the values come alive during the discussion and any decision you all ultimately make. 

Step 2a: Take a Vote as a Founder Team

If Step 1 does not yield any result, take a vote as a team. In two-person teams, this obviously results in a deadlock. In three or four-person teams, a vote can break an impasse, but you must ensure everyone agrees with the decision afterward. This can be the hardest thing about this step.  

Step 2b: Involve a Third Party 

This can be your board of directors, an advisor, or someone that everyone trusts. Here, concentrate on getting an outside perspective on the problem and how to move forward amicably. Be mindful, though, that a board of directors may have specific interests in mind (such as safeguarding the company) that could impact their outside perspective. 

Step 3: Hire a Mediator or an Executive Coach

The last step of the conflict resolution process ensures that should there be no agreement, an outside party that is an expert in working with startup teams is brought in to help move things along. 

💡 Sample Language: Should we have a problem, issue, or otherwise can agree on a decision, we, the founding team, decide to do the following: 
Step 1: Informally Negotiate Amongst Ourselves to Arrive at a Mutually Acceptable Decision
Should Step 1 not yield a positive result, we will either as part of Step 2 in this conflict resolution process: 1) Take a non-binding vote as a founding team to decide on whether or not we can agree on next steps together; or 2) Involve an outside third party, such as a member of the board, an advisor, or someone we all mutually trust to help us break any impasse or deadlock
And should Step 2 not yield a positive result, as a last ditch effort, we agree that Step 3 will involve contracting a mediator or executive coach with expertise working with startup teams to help us move forward constructively.

Optional Step: Arbitration 

Some teams may benefit from having the last step within their founder agreement that any such disputes that arise will be submitted to binding arbitration. What that means is that once submitted, the agreed-upon arbitrator will ultimately make a decision that is binding. 

The pros of adding this provision are that it removes the threat of litigation while an obvious con is that it removes the ability to self-determine the end result.

Choose for yourself and your team what might be more appropriate for your situation. 

Bottom Line

Startups are risky businesses. Your founder team will have to execute in an environment that has a lot of uncertainty. Making sure you all stay high-performing is ensuring that you have the key provisions in your founder agreement that you can rely on if and when things do go south. It may just save your company and, most importantly, your business relationship too!

October 5, 2022

Read More

View All

Have a disagreement?

Sign up for our 5-day FREE email course

Help yourself get unstuck & achieve better deals

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.